From Monday, Aug. 4, 2014: Last p-day we just emailed, went to the big
grocery store they had here, and had family night, during which we played
soccer, so that was fun! Also, the Elders looooooooooooove whips. I hate them.
Whips are apparently a huge thing here--these huge whips, and they sound like
gunshots, so loud. So ya, I’m not a fan, but I'll try to send you pics.
-On Tuesday we taught S.
about the importance of the Book of Mormon. We also went to the S. family’s
house (our branch president and his wife and son). So their son is sooo cute,
and he just kept giving us all his toys. Little kids speaking Hungarian is
about the cutest thing in the world actually. After that, we went to B’s house,
a member, really sweet, but her husband and son are not members, so we are
teaching them. This time we went over to help her unpack stuff because she had
just painted her house and there was hoards of stuff, not messy or anything,
but just a lot of things: cardboard flowers, little tea cups, stuffed animals,
doilies, decorations. Her husband J. made us this cherry desert so that was
good.
On Wednesday, you are
going to be SOOOOO jealous. Why? Because we made lunch with the Bs! They are a
family in our ward and the mom is a really good cook. We made Pörkölt, which is
basically pork gulas, Nokedli, which is like German spetzle pasta. You eat the
pörkölt and nokedli together and it is HEAVEN-- sooooo oooooooo amazingly good.
We also made Turós gombóc, which is kind of hard to explain, these cheese balls
that you eat with sour cream and powdered sugar. Sounds weird, but they’re
actually wayyyyyyyy good. And we made Almás pita, which is this suuuuper yummy
apple cobbler-cake type thing. So basically we stuffed ourselves. It was SOOOO
DELICIOUS.
We then made a 40
minute trek to the end of the world to visit a less active member whose house
made us bake, it was so hot. Hungarians
don’t seem to believe in air conditioning.
After, we returned to help B unpack and, on the way home we got
SOAKED! But It was actually so much fun
just walking home in the dark and the rain! Sister K would just try and scare
us-- haha it was so funny. She is awesome! I really love both my companions.
Sister W is from South Dakota and went to BYU last year too. She's great at
sports and just schools everyone. Sister K is just adorable and funny.
She always says these English phrases that the elders teach her in her little Hungarian
accent, like "that's sooo sick!” Hahaha--
it's so great.
From Monday, Aug 11, 2014: Mom said something in
her email that I thought was really cool: we all need to fail!! It’s so true. I
have already failed so much! Said so many things wrong and just made so many
mistakes! But that’s okay, that’s GOOD. I’m so grateful for all the times that I’ve
failed in my life because now, I am able to just kind of shrug these little
failures off more easily. For example, this week, we were streeting, and I went
up to a lady and introduced us as missionaries. She was like "you speak
English--can I speak in English?" And when I said yes, she just went off.
Her English wasn’t that good, but she just said something along the lines of
"Who are you to tell me about God, and how do you know I haven’t already
God in my heart? So you don’t need to say a WORD to me!" Or something like
that. So I just gave her a big smile, and told her she could practice her
English at our free class. Obviously I was a little shaken up by that, but I
know she’s a lot milder than what I will probably experience in the future!
Also, we were teaching S on Tuesday about the gospel of Jesus Christ. We had a
ward member present, and he was helping out, so basically it was a perfect
lesson! I taught about faith, and bore my testimony, and REALLY felt the
Spirit. But after what I thought was this awesome testimony that I had just
really felt the Spirit in, S corrected this word I said wrong, haha. I’m not mad about that or anything, and
I’m really glad that I could really feel the Spirit in a lesson, but it just
goes to show that things aren’t always going to be perfect! Your lessons aren’t
going to be like "The District" and just go perfectly! haha, but that’s
what makes them meaningful.I think. The Spirit is so personal, and that’s
something I really love. Just because someone else is feeling the Spirit, doesn’t
mean you have to, too. I love the way God just works with us so INDIVIDUALLY;
he does not compare our experiences or progression to ANYONE else.
Later in the day, we
went to the branch president’s house again, and they made us this fried
vegetable that was delicious. So another hooray for amazing Hungarian
food! But earlier that morning, I
woke up with this huge red bump on my leg and kind of ignored it. But by
this point in the day, I realized that I needed to do something about my leg.
To make a long story short, we went to the nurse who is the Senior Sister, and
then to the doctor. So low and behold, they think I had a tick bite and needed to take medicine
to prevent Lyme Disease (DONT freak out). Thankfully, I caught it super early
on, so hopefully everything will be fine.
I’m taking all the appropriate anti-biotics; it doesn’t hurt, and I’m
not in pain, and I will be going to the doctor again in a few days.
Saturday was sport nap
and we played soccer. M. (elder’s investigator) brought his friend N., who has
been really struggling lately. N. came to sport nap and had a really good time,
especially because we were all just way nice to him and stuff. But we invited
these little boys that were there to play with us-- they were sooo good! But
after, as we were leaving, I saw them pull out cigarettes and start smoking
with their friends. I don’t know why it shocked me so much-- knew that everyone
in Europe smoked, including little kids, but it just made me SO sad. I almost
wanted to cry thinking of how little these kids were. It just made me so
grateful that in the US, our schools really stress drug awareness, and
especially it made me grateful for the Word of Wisdom. God knows exactly what
we need.
I’m actually writing
this email later than usual because we went to a castle for Pday today!! Don’t
get too excited-- it was just ruins of a castle, but still really cool, built
around a hill with the castle atop the mountain (It was actually quite a hike
up to it) and grape vineyards everywhere! I don’t think I’m ever going to get
sick of looking around this beautiful country.
From Monday, Aug 18, 2014: FIRST OF ALL I AM
DOING GREAT! I’m not feeling sick at all from the tick bite or the antibiotic
treatment! In fact, i guess a bunch of missionaries in Buda went to some
Mexican restaurant and they all got food poisoning! So I AM FINE! I’ve been
taking my medicine, and I go to the doctor again tomorrow.
Last Tuesday, we went to S.’s, and he made us this amazzzzzing soup.
Sorry, you all are just going to have to deal with me talking about food. I’m
obsessed. It had white string beans, potatoes, sausage, and peppers and was so
incredible. But he didn’t have any bread, so he just gets on his socks and
sandals (a HUGE fashion statement in Hungary) and LEFT US IN HIS HOUSE to go
get bread. That was pretty funny.
On Wednesday, we went
tracting. I think I’m getting a pretty
dang good tan from tracting ... you should see my watch tan, pretty impressive!
And guess what, C. CAME to the program!! So proud. He has a hard time
understanding, but that’s a good thing. I need to learn how to teach simply, so
if Hungarian doesn’t force me to do that, C. will! On Thursday,
we had zone training in Győr!! We were all pretty excited for that! Győr
is such a cute city! I think I’d like to serve there at some point, not too big
or too small. But anyway,they just have
a lot more fountains and colorful buildings in the main square. Zone conference was good, though! My zone
consists of the Northwest of Hungary (so like, Sopron, Győr, Tatabánya, and
areas that are more near Austria kind of). I like everyone, even though I don’t
know them super well. We just talked about like asking good questions and
Spirit inspired questions, so that was good don’t know if you know who Elder D.
is? I guess he played basketball for San Diego State or something? Or like the
Suns or something? Anyway, he just told
this story of how this boy was totally selfish, a partier and a drinker, and
how the elders who taught him never gave up on him. The boy turned out to be
himself, and he just talked about the person he's become-- it was really cool.
After, half of the zone went to this restaurant on a ship, but it’s pretty
expensive, so the rest of us got döner. Haha, it’s a good thing I like
döner!
We then made our way
to Budapest for Greenie training. We got off and I was just like "what
the... there are SOOO many people here!”
We stayed in the mission home while my companions went on splits with
the Buda sisters. It was way fun to be able to talk to them about the work in
their areas, Buda, Pest, and Pécs, and everyone sounds like they’re doing
great! The next day we went to the Hivatal to get our living visas or whatever,
and then we went to lunch at KFC. The fast food here, including Mcdonalds, is
actually pretty expensive! I’d rather get a huge, authentic döner for 800
forint than a tiny KFC sandwich for 900 forint! It was nice to have fast food,
though, haha. Greenie training was very good, and we made our way home. I was
actually SOOO glad to be back in Pápa! Even just being in Buda for a day, it
was really nice to be in my little town again. And ya, still haven’t seen like
even a fourth of Buda. I kind of saw parliament building from the
car--that was cool!
On Saturday, President
and Sis. S. actually came to Pápa to do interviews! They took us to this really
nice restaurant and fagyi so that was super nice of them! And my interview with
president was GREAT!! Ahh I love him!! He is SO loving! He just made me feel
really good about being here! Most people tell you not to even think about your
family, but he was just like " I loved thinking about my family on my
mission (in Finland) because it really made me want to be a better
missionary" and I agree! I love you guys! Thanks for praying for me,
because I really HAVE felt your love and comfort! So thank you for that! He
just made me really want to be obedient, not like a scare-you-into obedience
type of way. There was just a lot more love behind it, a lot more "you
will be able to have the Spirit with you" kind of way. So I really am SO
grateful he is my mission president!
Yesterday was also K.
Nővér's Szuletésnapot! Her Birthday! We went over to her relative’s house and
had creamy zucchini soup, spinach stuffed chicken, potatoes, fried zucchini,
and cucumbers in vinegar. And chocolate cake. A.M.A.Z.I.N.G. I’m sure you all
feel so bad for me-- thanks for your sympathy!
From Monday, Aug 26: Health update: I am doing GREAT! I feel awesome, and I’m
following doctor’s orders. First off, I
want to say that I LOVE personal study! I always get so many insights from it. Quick
tip for future missionaries: I color code my scriptures according to the 5
lessons outlined in Preach My Gospel: blue for the restoration, orange for plan
of salvation, green for Jesus Christ's Gospel, purple for commandments, yellow
for ordinances and covenants, and then red for other things that I like but aren’t
specific. its soooo helpful! I have been
reading in Alma, and love Alma the Younger so much and always have. There’s a
scripture, I think in Helaman, that talks about, no matter how often we need to
repent, the Lord will always forgive us. Alma Jr. went about DESTROYING the
Church, and then repented, and later became responsible for thousands of people
coming unto the Church.
Earlier in the week,
we taught one of our church members the Plan of Salvation, which we have been
practicing a tooon. Anyway, it went great, and W. Nővér and I taught pretty much the whole
thing! I feel like my language and teaching skills are really going so uphill!
Then we had family night, and our investigator C. was like "my whole week
was a catastrophe. I prayed and read the Bible and didn’t get the job I
wanted.” And then L. just said basically "just keep reading and
praying!" and bore his testimony! It was awesome! L. got a new job, so he’s
been able to come to Church and more activities like family night, so it’s
awesome to have him there!
On Tuesday, the doctor
said I’m doing great-- taking my antibiotics, probiotics, and lovin’ life. So
we taught S. about the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and I taught receiving the Gift
of the Holy Ghost. He was agreeing with everything and seemed to be
understanding. W. Nővér, at the end of the lesson, asked him to be baptized,
and I felt the spirit SO STRONG. But then he just kind of went on about how he’s
already been baptized and doesn’t really think it’s that important and stuff.
So that was really sad. I love S. so much, but we don’t really know what to do.
Friday we had district
meeting, and went to some Chinese place. I'll just say that Hungarian Chinese
food is nothing you need to try....ever....and then we went tabling with the
Elders. I actually really like tabling a lot—it’s probably my favorite finding
method. You just set up a table with Book of Mormons and pamphlets, and fliers,
and posters that say "Mormon Vagyok" (Im Mormon) and "Ingyenes
Angolora" (free English class) and go up and talk to people. I feel like I’m
sooo much more confident in going up and talking to people! And I feel like I
can somewhat carry a conversation. AND I GOT MY FIRST PHONE NUMBER!!!!!!! BY
MYSELF! Ah-- I was SO excited!! You are all probably like "wow...it took
you a whole month?" But hey, I am just over here in little old Pápa, Hungary,
jumping for joy over my first phone number.
My thoughts on Sunday
are that I still love this Branch--so much faith, so many incredibly strong
testimonies. I’ve been here for a month (which is craziness in and of itself)
but I already just love this branch with all my heart, more than I can say
through an email.
So my favorite event
of the week was yesterday, in another program with S. We brought L. with us, prepared
to kind of ask Sándor questions like, "do you want to keep meeting with
us, what do you want from our meetings, do you feel like we have helped"
and stuff like that. He said he does want to keep meeting with us, and that we
help him understand the Bible and the Book of Mormon, that he wants to learn
more about the Book of Mormon, and just all these good things. So ya, we will
see what happens this week, because we asked him to read the Book of Mormon. I
have to say, L. ROCKED! Ah I love him! He is so incredibly humble. He’s willing
to admit to us that he has a hard time keeping the Word of Wisdom, but I have
just seen that he is trying so hard to come to Church and everything. And he
just kept bearing these awesome testimonies, saying that S. can always ask for
help from the missionaries. He invited him to Church on Sunday, and to the Stake
meeting in a couple of weeks! At one point, S. got up and left the room, and
came back with a copy of this huge Karl Marx book and L. commented, “I remember that from school--I don’t need
it" or something. At the end, he
bore his testimony of the Book of Mormon, and was like "The
Book of Mormon is not like Marx; it's not philosophy, It's scripture."
BOOM. That was probably one of my favorite things ever. Oh I love that guy. I
love S., too, and I hope we can help him, or at least know if we need to drop
him or not. Pray for us! And him! I know you all do and I thank you for that.
From Monday, September 1, 2014: Early
in the week, we had a program with
these people we found from our area book, an old couple, and they were SUUUUPER
sweet and nice and just orányos (adorable). We taught them 1st part of Plan of
Salvation and that went well! And you'll never guess what they gave
us......tomatoes! Haha! I love Hungarians. On Tuesday, Sz.invited us over to
have lunch and teach his friend. So he made us this really good roko krumpli,
which is like potatoes with eggs and sausage cooked in the typical Hungarian
mixture of sour cream and paprikas. It was SO. GOOD. but ya'll shouldnt be
surprised about that. haha. So after lunch, Sz’s friend G. had heard you had to
"pay to be part of your church" --- so our first lesson with her was
tithing! Haha! K. just basically taught her about tithing, and it was really
good! Then she asked us if we had a book about our church ;) so hopefully she
reads the Book of Mormon we gave her! But it was really just cool to see Sz.
get so excited about missionary work, and to see him be so open and confident
about sharing the Gospel and sharing his testimony with his friend! This branch
makes me want to be a better missionary. For example, B. asked us for a BoM to
give to her friend, and has given a BoM to someone else too! And she wants to
put a scripture from the BoM on a rock to put on her mom’s grave so people will
see it and be curious! AHHH, I love her. Also, there are slugs everywhere, so
for about 15 minutes while we were tracting, we just got on the ground and
examined them—haha—OH, missionary life.
On Saturday, P. from
our branch invited us to this festival thing and told us we were going to have
our own booth. So, I was expecting it to be this festival where we would just
talk to people about our church. But no-- it was a cooking competition!! There
was traditional Hungarian music playing and about 12 different tables of groups
all making pörkölt over a fire to compete over whose was the best! There was
one little néni at our table who wouldn’t let us do anything and just did
everything herself haha! It was actually really fun though, and eating pörkölt?
Ya, i don’t have a problem with that ;) Even though they all put a WHOLE
PACKAGE OF LARD in in-- oh dear.
**One
more fun thing: We got our weekly fagyi in the town square with the elders, and
two people were playing soccer the elders knew, so we joined them in our
missionary clothes! Then, a bunch of
teenagers came and wanted to join in. So we played soccer, the elders in their
dress clothes, W. Nover and I in our skirts (K. Nover sat out, haha) with the
locals in the town square of Papa. If
that’s not one of the funnest things I’ve ever done, I don’t know what is.
Email from Grace’s
Hungarian companion: I, I’m Sister K! I’m
Sister VanDenBerghe’s companion. J I thought I would write to you, but don’t
speak English very well. I only learned
it on my mission, so please excuse anything I say wrong. I would like to say I’m sooo grateful for
your daughter, because she is a very good missionary!!!!!!! She has a lot of diligence and is always willing
to try everything. I was surprised when
she spoke Hungarian because I thought she would not have learned a lot in the
MTC, haha, but she did! She speakd in
Hungarian very well!! And she always is
doing the missionary work and doing everything.
That’s a big help for me. And I
love her!! I’m so grateful I can serve
with her, and can be her trainer. I hope
I do it well. And I think she has
improved a lot in five weeks! J Have a good day. Sister K.